If you're off to a party (or event) soon and you're sick to the back teeth of the usual outfits from the usual shops what can you do?
You know exactly what I mean, don't you?
The 'traditional' shop choices.
The 'expected' styles, shapes and colours.
The generic "You're now over 40" outfit.
Boring.
Maybe even frumpy?
What if none of it's for you?
Doing what's 'expected' may feel comfortable and safe (for some people) BUT... there is always the danger that someone else is going to turn up in the same dress as you!
How can you look different without looking daft?
How can you make a statement about who you are without breaking the bank?
How can you look appropriate but still be true to your personal style?
The answer is simple...
As long as your outfit is appropriate for the occasion then there is no reason why you need to leave your personal style in the house.
You CAN express yourself whatever you're up to!
I only shop where I want, and I only look for items that catch my eye, turn my head and make me smile.
I don't care whether they're in a shop aimed at teens... or even in the children's department!
If I like it then I'm wearing it!
It's also VERY important to play to your strengths.
It will give you confidence.
If you like your legs, make them the focus of your outfit... get those pins out!
If your waist is wasp-like belt it and show it off!
Cleavage to die for? Show off the girls!
For me, I feel confident showing my arms, back and shoulders.
I know my skin is milky white and I've a few freckles, moles and funny tag thingamajigs.
BUT, I still feel happy that my arms have some tone to them and I'm comfortable getting them out.
So, when this strapless jumpsuit turned my head I jumped right on it!
If you're on the bustier side you may struggle with the strapless look... drooping down is never a good look!
If gravity is calling, try a strapless bodysuit or longline bra.
It could give you the extra help you need.
Whatever you decide to wear make sure it reflects YOUR personality and feels like you.
Only then will you be truly comfortable and guaranteed to have a great time.
JUMPSUIT: Topshop ... try this plain blue version.
SHOES: Martha Johnson... try these.
BAG: Linea ... try this.
EARRINGS: a gift... try these.
SHRUG: older than a very old thing!... this one is fabulous!
GET THE LOOK... including plus size options!
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ReplyDeleteOoh, what a fun party look! I totally agree that you should basically wear what you feel awesome in! The split front legs of the jumpsuit make me giddy with glee.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha...me too Sheila!
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Whoa - that is FINE! So fine!! You will turn heads wherever you go, not that you don't already in anything you wear.
ReplyDeleteHahaha.. thank you very much Melanie! XXX
DeleteFantastic! What a colors!
ReplyDeleteIt's bold isn't it Nancy?! :o)
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OMG you look freaking gorgeous! I love everything about this outfit, Sam – the colours, the print, the shape. Gorgeous. I'm also in love with those earrings and shoes – what stunning colours! LOVE
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Thank you so much Suzy!!! I'm so glad you like it too. XXX
DeleteFabulous Samantha! I think this colorful floral is perfect for a more formal event. The strapless styling is what gives it a dressier vibe and your addition of sparkles in that short sleeved shrug pumps up the volume to perfection.
ReplyDeleteThank you Judy... I like to dig out a sparkle every now and again! XXX
DeleteLovely gorgeous look, beautiful floral jumpsuit and the lovely cute shoes..
ReplyDeletePatricia Calibre plus size jumpsuit
Thank you so much! XXX
DeleteSuper advice!
ReplyDeleteI'm 55 and have no problem shopping. I think a lot of my fave stores have wised up about where their older customers are coming from. I love to shop at Arket and Cos and 'and other stories' thank goodness we dont have to look so frumpy anymore and can dress how we like!
Love your colour choices
bestest wishes
Ashley x
I love Cos and "and other stories" but Arket is a new one for me... off for a look! XXX
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Well, this is as amazing as you are! You are really rocking that jumpsuit! I'm loving that little "mermaid green" sequin shrug, that's more my speed :-)
ReplyDeleteBettye
https://fashionschlub.com
It's a cute one isn't it Bettye ? :o)
DeleteI love adding old pieces to make an outfit feel more comfortable and familiar.
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You look gorgeous! and elegant! and fabulous!!! and absolutely You!! (which I agree that it's the most important thing when dressing up). And it's a really appropriate outfit for some partytime! sparkly accessories are so cool!
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besos
Awwwww... Thank you!!
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Absolutely brilliantly stunning, Sam! And those shoes have me dying in a swoon!
ReplyDeleteShelbee
www.shelbeeontheedge.com
They're fab aren't they Shelbee?!
DeleteI found them on the clearance rail years ago for less than £20... I was chuffed as nuts!!
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This is stunning, love the bright colours and daring boob tube top. Enjoy wearing Hun. Jacqui Mummabstylish
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Jacqui!! XXX
DeleteI love the colors on this wow, bold and beautiful! It caught my eye too. You look great in strapless Sam, and those shiny green heels are the perfect compliment!
ReplyDeletejess xx
www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com