Should we be wearing Miniskirts over 40?
Hmmmmm.....
There are plenty of online articles (and opinionated people) that will tell you NO!
"Cover your knees."
"You're too old to have your legs out."
"Mini skirts are cheap and vulgar."
"You look like a desperate old slapper in that!!"
Age is an irrelevance.
The only thing that matters is if you feel good wearing one.
Feeling good means looking good.
Anyone else's opinion doesn't matter a jot!
The 4 C's you need before you Wear a Mini Skirt
1. Confidence
If you don't feel happy and confident in your miniskirt (or minidress) step away.
Confidence is key.
If you feel awkward you will look awkward.
If you are pulling and tugging at the hem self consciously then forget about it!
There are plenty of other great styles to choose from.
2. Camouflage
If your legs are on the heavy side, have marks, discolouration, spider veins or a deathly blueish tinge (like mine) you may want to invest in some good hosiery.{Don't even think about putting cheap tights on with your mini.... even perfect pins look bad in cheap tights.}
Spend as much as you can afford to get a good quality pair.
The difference is amazing.
Even opaque support tights are indistinguishable from regular tights nowadays.... long gone are those wrinkly granny tights.
Support tights might sound scary but they are perfect for any vein issues you may have, or if you suffer from tired and achy legs.
Be aware that patterned (and lacy) tights can visibly thicken the legs, great for me not so good if your legs are more athletic in shape.
If in doubt stick to block colours.... black is not always best, and there are some beautiful coloured tights out there to float your boat!
In warm weather why not go bare!?
All you need is de-fuzzing, a little lotion and some TLC before heading out in that mini skirt.
Use every means at your disposal to fake those gorgeous pins!
3. Care less (about knees)
Forget about the state of your (imperfect) knees.Many people will tell you to cover your knees as you get older.
"Knees are ugly and wrinkly!"Who really cares about your knees apart from you?
No one.
Knees are never pretty, even on the beautiful people.
I've had seriously knobbly ones all of my life but I'm not going to let them stop me enjoying wearing a shorter hemline.
Get your knees out if you want to!
4. Chill Out
If you're feeling too exposed and a bit too "sexy" in your mini, you may want to tone things down a little.Try flat shoes (or boots) and a loose fitting top to add a carefree and casual vibe.
Having said that, if you want to wear a fitted top and high heels then bloody well go for it!
It's your life, and your body to dress how you please.
There is plenty of colour (and pattern) within this look so I kept my accessories to a minimum.
Earrings and lipstick.
Simple.
Do you love a mini hemline?
Are you getting your legs out regardless of age?
If not, what's stopping you?
Body confidence?
Peer and social pressures?
Please let me know in the comments.
I would love to hear your opinion on this.
GET THE LOOK
You’ve certainly nailed the look Samantha. The colours are fabulous.
ReplyDeleteI think opaque tights are the best thing ever I’d live in mine all year round. Hmm I mainly have this year the weather has been so bad
LYNN xx
Hahahaha, it has certainly been tights weather Lynn!
DeleteI LOVE my collection of opaques, in all colours.
They're such an easy way to complete a look, aren't they?
Thank you for your kindness.
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YAY!! So glad you posted this Samantha .I'm nearly 45 and I feel my happiest and most like me when I'm wearing a dress or skirt above the knee with opaque tights and flattish boots. So there Trinny and Susannah! (I believe they said you shouldn't wear a dress above the knee once you hit 40.. or was it 35.. any way its poppycock. Get your pins out! I have shortish legs and they are athletic and not super slim but I don't care :-D
ReplyDeleteYES!
DeleteGet those pins out.
Mine are like knotted in strings.... none of us are perfect and why should we have to be?
Enjoy wearing your minis and lets stick two fingers up to the "not over 35" brigade. :oP
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knotted strings or knots in strings.... not knotted in strings! LOL
DeleteWhat a fantastic look! I love it! Just yesterday's I was in a shop and had a mini skirt in my hands. I love mini skirts in Autumn and winter but never wear then anymore. I think they don't suit me. But now I'm thinking: why not try it! Okay, I will, you convinced me. Should I wear knitted tights, we call then maillots, with a tweed skirt? And are you recommending 60 denier, or thicker, tights?
ReplyDeleteGo for it Nancy!
DeleteWhat are you waiting for? As for tights... knitted looks quirky and cool, especially with boots or brogues.
Personally, I like the look of 40 denier and above. Whatever floats your boat really! 40 denier looks nice if the quality is great, higher deniers are more practical in colder weather.
Why not try some coloured 40-60 deniers, for something light looking but still making a statement.
Tweed skirts look great with heavier deniers.... pick out a colour in the pattern and have fun!
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It has nothing to do with age. And you're superb in mini skirt.
ReplyDeleteYou're very kind to say so Max, thank you! XXX
Deleteyou look (particularly) fabulous in this outfit, I love those cute booties, the pullover with pompoms, and the print on the mini skirt, those details that make everything looks so cool and interesting!
ReplyDeleteGreat advice on wearing whatever you like!, you rock!
besos
Thank you so much Monica! XXX
DeleteDefinitely an outfit I would wear, and it suits you so well!
ReplyDeleteMy legs always have been, and still are, my best feature, so I'm not hiding them away any time soon! I tend to stick with knee-length in summer, as I am more conscious these days of my knees being past their best, but I love being able to wear a shorter skirt with thick tights in autumn and winter.
I've given up on worrying about my knees Fran.
DeleteThey're not great but hey ho things could be worse.
I'm glad to hear that you enjoy rocking a mini too!
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Yep, even though I am nearing the end of my early fifties, I still have and wear mini skirts, mainly in winter though! My fave is a red black & white giant houndstooth pattern from M&S, usually worn with a red cardi over a black l/s t-shirt and black opaques with flat black patent knee boots.
ReplyDeleteI tend to wear mine with flat / chunky boots, either knee or ankle and opaques. I'm not comfortable in heels & short skirts nowadays.
Keep enjoying your minis Floss.
DeleteThat houndstooth skirt sounds perfect with patent boots!
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I don't tend to wear mini skirts, although I have worn a couple with black tights - thick black tights too! You look great in this and the colours really suit you. x Jacqui
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Thank you Jacqui!
DeleteMaybe you could give them another go this winter? :O)
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Thank you Rachel! XXX
ReplyDeleteGood grief! I seem to have missed a big ol bunch of your postings Samantha!! I've been following you via Bloglovin but perhaps they aren't serving my interests as well as I'd assumed.
ReplyDeleteThe color of that sweater and your hair color are SO wonderful together. I think I love the shot of you and your lovely grey dog best. The contrast of his grey fur adds to the richness in your sweater and hair.
I'm going to have to check on your blog more diectlh from mow on to make sure I'm updated!
Good grief! I seem to have missed a big ol bunch of your postings Samantha!! I've been following you via Bloglovin but perhaps they aren't serving my interests as well as I'd assumed.
ReplyDeleteThe color of that sweater and your hair color are SO wonderful together. I think I love the shot of you and your lovely grey dog best. The contrast of his grey fur adds to the richness in your sweater and hair.
I'm going to have to check on your blog more diectlh from mow on to make sure I'm updated!
This could be a cute outfit but there’s way too much red going on
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This could be a cute outfit, but there’s a little too much red going on. The only time anyone can really pull off monotone is all black and only done in the way that doesn’t make you look like a Goth.
ReplyDeleteI love mixing colours, clashing them AND sticking to one shade throughout... the more the merrier in my book. I only wish I could find my burgundy lipstick to finish the look.
DeleteThat's the beauty of fashion, isn't it?... we can have fun!!
All black is great too.
I prefer it in the evening but love it on others.
Oh... and I LOVE the goth look.
Goth's are very cool and I love their style. Especially the makeup.
Thank you for your comment.
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ReplyDeleteI was looking for "forties mini skirt" on image search on web and found your nice photo. You are the one that I want to be. How cute you are!!
There are so many people who complain to forties women that they should not wear mini bottoms. I am 42, I want to wear mini bottoms like you. Furthermore, I like your other style too. I'll check your blog.
Thank goodness for this post! I googled mini skirts over 40 and most of what I found was vilifying. The 4 cs resonate with me and my miniskirt loving ways!
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